I don't know. We were married for about 8 years before we got sucked into the Borg. The first year we were married was rough. We were really young, and I was really unstable. We only dated for about 6 months total before the wedding, and most of that time we had a long distance relationship. When we started studying, I was pregnant. I became a crazy, hormonal mess and lost my bloody mind. At the time, I credited the "truth" with helping us work out our issues and stay together. Looking back, I think we would have navigated my craziness more quickly and peacefully without the witlesses. Now, we are both out and I think that our marriage is stronger than ever.